This week, I want to talk about something I see all the time in family law cases:
Text messages and emails that end up hurting the person who sent them. When emotions are high—especially during a divorce or custody dispute—it’s natural to want to explain yourself, defend yourself, or “set the record straight.” Unfortunately, those messages often become exhibits in court.
A few reminders I give clients regularly:
• Assume every message could be read by a judge
• Avoid sarcasm, insults, and long explanations
• Stick to logistics only (pickups, schedules, school issues)
• If you wouldn’t want it read out loud in court, don’t send it
Short, boring, factual messages protect you far more than emotional ones—even when you’re right. If communication with the other parent feels impossible, that’s often a sign it’s time to change how you communicate (or limit it), not escalate the argument.
If you’re in the middle of a family law issue and aren’t sure how to handle communication, that’s something we help with every day.
As always, feel free to reply to this email if you have questions or want to see if your situation needs legal guidance.
Take care,
Jeff Simpson
The Simpson Law Office
Family law is stressful enough—your messages shouldn’t make it worse.
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